I have wasted so much time and effort trying to please others and trying to fit in to what society thinks is acceptable. Why? Why do we do that to ourselves? I am tired of it and coming up with assumptions of "What are they thinking?" and the list goes on. I feel secure in myself to know that I treat people well and respect them and that's all I can do. I cannot and neither can you make someone like you. I can appreciate someone being authentically who they are and be comfortable with it. They have no disguise and they have no hidden agendas. They are sincere and brutally honest and that makes it a breeze to carve out a friendship with them. I have a friend that I steal her line from and she says.."Do you want me to tell you what you want to hear or the brutal honest truth?" I use it whenever I can and some people just cannot deal with the truth.
By being honest does that consider me a bitch? Some may say so but I like to know where I stand. We do not need to hide behind our masks to be loved, appreciated, accepted, hired and liked in this world. So much judgement and prejudices are being made. On what? Your beliefs and what you read and heard through social media. WE are a society of complex issues and how is a person to deal with all of it?
As a coach and a huge sponge for personal development many would rather live in denial than to deal with
their issues. We turn to our fixes, addictions, and self-loathing to fill that empty void. We all want to be accepted and heard. What do you feel is your purpose? Does it change and vary? Listen to your heart and listen closely for the message. I wish that all of you can live authentically and live your truth. I would love to hear what you have to say and what you want to read.
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